Sunday, July 14, 2013

Trojan Pam's Words and Others



TrojanPam on said:
@ DiaryofaNegress
who said: “Blacks need to stop getting in each other’s faces and start devising a tangible plan of action. By keeping us at each other’s throats, we lose sight of what we should be doing. Fighting the enemy.”

I agree, and have been guilty of “jumping into the fray” — and i know that is what the white supremacists want me to do–to come out swinging at other black people.
That being said, I feel that some issues and comments need to be addressed, the question is HOW should they be addressed to get the most constructive results?
Because while some of you have managed to build a force field against those harmful insults that seem to come from everywhere — which D determine how black females will be treated in the real world,
there are many sisters who have not, and have internalized all the hurtful things said about black females AND have begun to believe them
this is why I think so many black females spew so much VENOM at each other in the form of name-calling (bi*h, ho, rachet h_, etc) and why we do not trust or like each other (like we should)
because if a black female is “nothing” then I’m nothing and if I’m nothing that other black B over there who “thinks she’s something” ain’t nothing either and I’m gonna tell her, show her, and treat her like she’s nothing”
We have internalized all the degradation about black females for the last 500 years and we’re ANGRY about this mistreatment but do NOT understand where it comes from OR how to deal with it
That doesn’t excuse my my desire to occasionally strike out at those who are attacking me, but I also won’t say I’ll never do it again
but overall i do agree that I have to work harder not to fall into the traps that are designed to make us rip each other apart.
I’m still a work in progress..

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TrojanPam on said:
@ THE ALCHEMIST
What a not so surprising blog
The diabolically clever white supremacists have created so much anti-blackness and black scapegoating that even the VICTIMS get confused.
When I see this kind of anti-black-female RANTING, I’m reminded of something Mr. Neely Fuller, Jr said,
that white supremacy creates two kinds of people: MONSTERS (the white supremacists) and MONSTROSITIES (black people)
The anti-black-female black male is so FULL OF FEAR of the white supremacists (racist white male AND racist white female) that he is desperate to please and appease them by making someone else (the Black Female) the target in the hopes that he will be spared from the wrath of white people.
Just like the appeaser who hopes the alligator will eat him last, of course, it won’t work.
The black male is the BIGGEST TARGET in the white supremacists’ genocidal sights and the only way to avoid total annihilation is to GET UP OFF HIS KNEES and EXTEND A HAND to and JOINING FORCES with the Black Female — which of course, the SELF-HATING BLACK MALE IS UNABLE and UNWILLING TO DO.
Unfortunately, this kind of attack on the women who represent his mother, daughter, and sister is the SINGLE BIGGEST ACT OF COWARDICE that any male can commit, tantamount to holding up a baby as a shield against a barrage of bullets.
And I wouldn’t be surprised if many anti-black-female black males are in the grips of some STRONG homosexual compulsions–which they are projecting onto black females as LOATHING for the female sex.
Not trying to play PSYCHO-ANALYST but I believe that any black male who professes such a strong dislike for black females definitely has some SEXUAL ISSUES going on. No doubt about it.



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TrojanPam on said:
@ Negress
I wouldn’t be surprised if many of these anti-black-female and anti-black-people posters are IMPOSTORS.
I prefer to judge black people BY the people I have seen and talked to and the MAJORITY of black males I have met do NOT talk or think with utter hatred.
I think the younger black males might fall prey to this type of thinking due to being prepped by gangster rap music defaming black females and black people in general and watching too much TV and movies and overdosing on “entertainment”
which is why WE- as mothers and fathers — must NOT allow the TV and entertainment industry to “raise” (brain trash) our black children because of the bitter crops it produces
give them a book or a puzzle or a chemistry set or building blocks or coloring books and TURN THE BOOB TUBE OFF


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TrojanPam on said:
@ Umoja
We’ll see what happens. What I’ve found is MOST people don’t post even when they agree or disagree, so I wouldn’t be surprised if he had fewer posters than it looks. It’s easy enough to fabricate multiple identities on-line.
I don’t believe for ONE minute that most or even many black males agree with him. Sure, they have their gripes with black females, just like we gripe about them, but they don’t think all black females are “evil” or that we’re a bigger problem than racism. If I’m wrong, then I might as well throw in the towel and the bucket because our butts are toast!
I also experienced a lot of white people posing as black people and some are very skilled at what they do. And there are a lot of gov agents out here stirring up gender wars between black males and females.
They’re biggest concern is that black males and females will become UNIFIED and the SPIRITUAL POWER that UNITY would release into the Universe
Otherwise, why would the white supremacy system put so much time, money and energy into keeping black males and females apart?
If he wants to come my way, he’s wasting his time since I am almost numb to that anti-black-female RANTING because I know it’s not about me, it’s about the one who’s DOING it.
And as miserable as he might make me out to be, NO ONE is more miserable than the one spewing VENOM and POISON into the universe against their own kind.
There is nothing he can do to me that is worse than what he’s already doing to himself.

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diaryofanegress on said:
ms wanda
Giving up is not in our DNA. I’m sorry to hear about your job loss. Many of us are either unemployed or UNDERemployed and that’s exactly what they want.
To drive us into further poverty.
Do you have a skill?
Crafts? Hair braiding? Sewing?
Why not turn your skill into $$$ and start a small home based business? Are you good with computers? Maybe advertise doing a Splash Page for aspiring black business owners.
Our ancestors turned innards into cuisine…just ask Sylvia of Sylvia’s Restaurant. I would pray for guidance and answers will come. Do you have old antiques? Maybe old purses? Shoes? Sell them!
Antique stores will buy your old things and give you $$$ for them. Do not ever give up. We’re here for you.

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Tyrone on said:
@Umoja
I’m not gonna claim innocence on this subject. Yes, Negress has scolded us about attacking the family many times. In theory, she’s correct to say that. However, it’s not good to keep emotions bottled up. As is already known, i have a lot of anger in me as it relates to less than godly blackmen on this planet. Blackwomen have blame as well, but, we as black males are f@#king up big time. I’m amazed that we have tolerated the hatred of our race by a certain percentage of self-loathing BM. The only reason i f@#k with the blogosphere is to encourage other blackmen to love themselves and blackwomen. The other ish that DOAN talks about is secondary to this specific issue. Sistas, i want ya’ll to hear me loud and clear. A blackman can’t love his people without loving you…Please Understand This! I don’t care if i sound like a broken record sometimes, i’m gonna shout this to the masses every chance i get. How does all of this relate to the Zimmerman Trial? We’re fighting 2 devils at the same time. Some naive blacks want to assume that Amerikkklan has really changed, no, it never changed…We Changed! Racist whitemen have always regretted the fact they didn’t kill us off the first time. Our freedom was gained in 1964, and that’s when all hell broke loose. Another point that i want to make, this in relation to so-called militant blackmen…Black Panthers & Nation of Islam. In hindsight, both groups got us off track. The Black Panther Party had it wrong from the start. It was all about the blackman, the needs and wants of blackwomen were and still are ignored. The Nation of Islam lied to blackmen, in relation to thinking that non-black men would really assist us in the struggle. Today, blackmen in the hood kiss the backsides of arab storeowners who set up in the hood and rape our culture, asians do the same. Black males are picked on for being smart and using the Queen’s english…Acting White? So, inner-city black boys are marked from birth to be inferior to other men, Peanut and Bobo ain’t supposed to be smart, only the black girls. People love to yap about the Panthers, but, look at what was born out of their sexist mindset? Multiple generations of black males that have no respect for human life because they hate blackwomen. Love flows from the female into the male, this will never change. Treyvon is dead and gone, but, we lose young black life everyday in this country. Yes, we should be outraged. However, our anger is one-sided. “Let them ni##gers kill each other, as long as they don’t hurt me and mine.” That mindset is killing us. So many black girls and women have lost their lives here in Miami because they were out and about. Yet, the killing of black females is given scant notice by so-called black leaders who are sexist to the core. The earth’s axis needs to shift in a major way. Whether Zimmerman walks or gets convicted, the senseless loss of black life is not going to stop until blackmen can look their sisters in the eye without blinking.
Ty
Not A Ni##a…Not A B##ch…Not A H#e. Treyvon is not in a better place, he should be here amongst us.


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Umoja on said:
It is true that we must stop getting into each others faces and throat; but I will confront those who find it privy to constantly berate, demean and degrade Blacks while love, understanding and solutions are ever absent….while in the same breath homicidal verbiage, degradation and diarrheic venom remains a constant.
I refuse to sit back and watch or read such venom against my own and say nothing whether it be Black men or Black women….of course whites. Many Blacks do this throughout, which only permeates the hate and reveals lack of unity, love and understanding.( The weak spot that whites use against us…to our demise). Yet, I have no compassion or loyalty for those who consciously choose to continue spewing venom.
I tell ‘ya, if one continues to listen/read such venom, I promise you, it will begin to affect you psychologically, slowly but surely. You will begin to hate your own….as it is cleverly intended as the desired result.
It serves no purpose. We all know the ills and dysfunctions in Black life. It doesn’t need to be said any more as many will say….except for—solutions, understanding, compassion and love if we must. We’re flogging a dead horse. I’m against sharing those things publically in such detail…. if we must; limited and solutions offered.
It is dangerous and poisonous. None of it leads to healing, unity, growth or progress; yet, the trap of many co-inspiring hate and division…. unbeknownst to those who indulge…including myself.
It is easy and indeed tempting to add to such conversations. Yet, I’ve learned months ago to refrain from such conversations whether one means well or not; it all boils down to one thing—you’ve added to the tactic of divide and conquer whether that was your intent or not. Period
I refuse to speak against Black men or Black women publically. Believe me, it is an awesome tool that Whites use against us. They study all of it and can mimic it to a “T” behind these computers unbeknownst to many Blacks who will co-inspire and succeed the agendas of white supremacy—divide and conquer.
We all need healing, including myself. I have deep compassion for us all and understanding. I refuse to c0-inspire white supremacy/racism with my own race of people with whom ever; therefore placing the noose around my own neck. It’s poisonous, counter-productive ; permeates hate, division, alienation…..death.
Abusive venom in the disguise of “help” is complete and utter insanity and horrific deception. You don’t abuse the handicap by handicapping them further with vile hatred and contempt then expect them to get up and walk. These are the type that we get us all killed.
We are our only allies.
” We can’t have war between Black men and Black women, because no people can be free if one half of the mind of the people is tied up in conflict; it’s going to have to be both of us or none of us.”
~~Dr. John Henrike Clarke~~

 
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Kushite Prince on said:
Yeah it seems to get derailed quite a bit. The so called “gender war” is so played out. We have to stop pointing the finger and trying to blame each other. Black men and women need each other. We have NO allies at all. We need to figure this fact out very quickly. All the blaming does is divide us more and more. Black men and women both have their faults. But if we want to beat this BEAST–we better get on the same page with a quickness! I look forward to your next post. I’m sure it’ll be a good one.

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Tyrone on said:
@honeytreebee
Sista, i have in my black sisters. Wise blackmen know better. The Tommy Sotomayor’s of the blogosphere and youtube hate blackwomen. I couldn’t look a sista in the eye if i spoke animosity against my Mother. Sadly, some of their mothers fuel the hatred of blackwomen. We’re at a tipping point right now, evil a___ blackmen are in bed with WM & WW. 2 against 1, that’s some foul ish. Basically, sistas are battling The Globe. Envy of blackwomen is global, please understand this Nubia? Militant No Mas…I and other black males have been living a lie. Rosa Parks did what many of us are afraid to do…Confront White Supremacy! Thank You Sista!
Ty


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Kushite Prince on said:
@Leviqueen
That’s true. But screw them!! That shouldn’t stop us from doing what we need to do. We need economic empowerment and freedom. We can’t let them scare us into doing nothing. That’s what these beasts want us to do!
 

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